Yes
For those of you who haven’t heard.
Yes, I’m getting married.
To him.
He’s a cock.
But I love you baby. =)
the good ol’ question
Just the other day, a friend of mine asked.
” How do you that he’s the one?”
Most of people will just answer, “oh, the feeling’s right i guess. And the timing’s right to get married.”
Caught slightly off-guard by her question, I blabbered. Mostly nonsense, but i guess there are some points to it.
“Despite being together for a short time, some will put it as “shotgun”. And NO, I’m not pregnant. But I guess you do sort of know.
Its not about how good his personality is, how much he earns, how learned he is.
Its not about doing the craziest things together, spending every moment with your heart thumping, palms sweating.
If you can find joy doing the most simple things together with that person, yet being totally as ease, what else can you ask for?
Even a spending a lazy sunday morning together, drinking coffee having breakfast, then spreading yourselves out on the floor reading newspapers can be fun.
You know he’s the one when you don’t feel that you need to entertain him just by doing outrageous things. Even though that serves up as nice surprises sometimes. =)
To put flatly, if you can fart, dig your nose, *insert other disgusting hygiene habits* without hesistation in front of this other person, he’s the one. HAHAHA
At the end of the day, what i’m trying to say, is that if you 2 are able to enjoy each other’s company despite the most boring shite ever, or doing the most mind boggling job/assignment/event ever, or even something both of you hate most. You’ve basically tested the lowest bottom limit.
Yep, that’s my answer. =)
Daphne’s answer was somewhat along the lines of
” if you guys can plan and travel together without going at each others’ throat. You’re made for each other. LOL”
maybe. just maybe.
Maybe,
just maybe.
That my little sista has grown.
From that raw little seed, to a bud that is emerging, showing off that peek of the first blush, to blossom in full glory in time that is soon to come.
You are beautiful and amazing in so many ways. Remember that girl.
=)
for the Sista, my little sister always.
Hang on Little Tomato by Pink Martini
The sun has left and forgotten me
It’s dark, I cannot see
Why does this rain pour down
I’m gonna drown
In a sea
Of deep confusion
Somebody told me, I don’t know who
Whenever you are sad and blue
And you’re feelin’ all alone and left behind
Just take a look inside and you will find
You gotta hold on, hold on through the night
Hang on, things will be all right
Even when it’s dark
And not a bit of sparkling
Sing-song sunshine from above
Spreading rays of sunny love
Just hang on, hang on to the vine
Stay on, soon you’ll be divine
If you start to cry, look up to the sky
Something’s coming up ahead
To turn your tears to dew instead
And so I hold on to his advice
When change is hard and not so nice
You listen to your heart the whole night through
Your sunny someday will come one day soon to you
Congratulations~
Cant believe that Jf’s big day is over, just like that.
all the planning, hideous running about the places to look for materials, emotional rollercoaster rides, fighting the mozzies at MOG….. i will have to say that its all worth it to see the place done up so beautifully on that day.
The sun was particularly good, the mozzies were particularly active, the birds were particularly having good bowels (but the MOG pple took care of that), the helpers were particularly efficient, the guests were particularly early, the JP was particularly funny, the flower boy and girl are particularly cute, the bride was particularly beautiful and the groom was particularly sweet.
It was all a particularly, exquisitely beautiful wedding.
Its just no wonder why people tear at weddings.
Its really a totally different feeling seeing someone who matters to you, has found happiness with another someone, who feels the same way too.
Congrats Jf and Vitor!
I’m sure it’s a day that both of you will remember for life.
