the good ol’ question
Just the other day, a friend of mine asked.
” How do you that he’s the one?”
Most of people will just answer, “oh, the feeling’s right i guess. And the timing’s right to get married.”
Caught slightly off-guard by her question, I blabbered. Mostly nonsense, but i guess there are some points to it.
“Despite being together for a short time, some will put it as “shotgun”. And NO, I’m not pregnant. But I guess you do sort of know.
Its not about how good his personality is, how much he earns, how learned he is.
Its not about doing the craziest things together, spending every moment with your heart thumping, palms sweating.
If you can find joy doing the most simple things together with that person, yet being totally as ease, what else can you ask for?
Even a spending a lazy sunday morning together, drinking coffee having breakfast, then spreading yourselves out on the floor reading newspapers can be fun.
You know he’s the one when you don’t feel that you need to entertain him just by doing outrageous things. Even though that serves up as nice surprises sometimes. =)
To put flatly, if you can fart, dig your nose, *insert other disgusting hygiene habits* without hesistation in front of this other person, he’s the one. HAHAHA
At the end of the day, what i’m trying to say, is that if you 2 are able to enjoy each other’s company despite the most boring shite ever, or doing the most mind boggling job/assignment/event ever, or even something both of you hate most. You’ve basically tested the lowest bottom limit.
Yep, that’s my answer. =)
Daphne’s answer was somewhat along the lines of
” if you guys can plan and travel together without going at each others’ throat. You’re made for each other. LOL”
